tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post2428969094762091792..comments2024-03-16T14:19:24.563-06:00Comments on Narcissists Suck: ***SCREECH*** The Sound of A Blogger Hitting the BrakesAnna Valerioushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02537877317873251678noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-87534922358619111892013-07-14T10:39:28.585-06:002013-07-14T10:39:28.585-06:00Anna,
I found your blog yesterday, I've spent...Anna,<br /><br />I found your blog yesterday, I've spent every free minute since then reading it. I too am an adult child of two narcissistic parents (male parent the more physically abusive, female parent the more emotionally abusive). I'm also the oldest child in the family and was the family scapegoat growing up. I created as much physical distance (if not enough emotional distance) as possible during my parent's lifetime. Once both of my parents were dead I unwisely tried to have an honest, supportive relationship with my two sisters and my brother (aka "the prince). It didn't go well, I finally realized they are miney-me's of my parents, and while I carry the broken bones, scars and burn marks, they had their souls destroyed - they were born or became my parents. I feel true grief for them - surgeons, dermatologists and psychologists have been able to help me put myself back together again, they don't have a "self" to work on. But I also realized that I can't change that don't choose to allow it in my life any longer. I divorced my family of origin and feel nothing other than joy I'm finally free of narcissists and a hope that perhaps someday they may truly be able to relate to (rather than use) people - but even if they do I won't be one of those people. I'm finally free at last! Please blog about your sister (dealing with MN sibling is very difficult to find info about) and anything else that describes your experience and insights - they are of immense value.<br /><br /><br /> Finally Someonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04658915513863589457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-82610918815182570102008-10-11T23:34:00.000-06:002008-10-11T23:34:00.000-06:00Anna, I love your blog and often post what I've fo...Anna, I love your blog and often post what I've found here on my own blog - Of course I give you 100% credit.<BR/><BR/>On this topic of toxic siblings .. I am in need of MORE lol .. <BR/><BR/>My boyfriends mother is a Narcissist and his brother is her pet pit bull.. but he refuses to see it...<BR/><BR/>I've done extensive research on personalities and know when one parent is a narcissist usually one or more of the children are also.<BR/><BR/>I need more to show him.. I'll keep looking. <BR/><BR/>I've posted as anonymous - something I never do- but I know it would hurt him to know I've shared the "secret" his family holds closer then eachother.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-22380083964438722962007-05-16T10:29:00.000-06:002007-05-16T10:29:00.000-06:00Thank you, all, for your supportive comments. I w...Thank you, all, for your supportive comments. I want to make it clear I wasn't threatening to stop blogging, just to stop the thread on my sister. I'm still mulling over what I'm going to do on that. <BR/><BR/>Talia, thank you for pointing out how "anyone who has been abused by such an individual would understand your motivations." My husband and daughter have said the same thing. I know you all are correct. Those of us who have lived with abusive narcissists and their henchmen (like my sister) certainly recognize the same beast when someone else describes their own abusers. <BR/><BR/>I appreciate the three of you voicing your opinions. Feel free to do so any time.Anna Valerioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02537877317873251678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-53518305876009570312007-05-15T13:05:00.000-06:002007-05-15T13:05:00.000-06:00keep posting! keep posting! keep posting!keep posting! keep posting! keep posting!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-64373552564900984072007-05-15T09:02:00.000-06:002007-05-15T09:02:00.000-06:00All i have to say is Hallelujah I found your blog....All i have to say is Hallelujah I found your blog. It was heaven sent. I sat up until 3 AM devouring everything you wrote. I could not believe I was reading MY LIFE and MY MOTHER! I have been in therapy for several months and only recently did I finally realize the horrible truth: my mother is and always has been a narcissist. Prior to that it was always ME, MY PROBLEM, MY SHAME, MY MISTAKES, MY INADEQUISIES.<BR/><BR/>If you want to "read" about my mother, look at the link i attached. I wrote it from "her" point of view (some names changed but everything else is a fact.) All of the rants and raves are true quotes. This is what she sounds like. Of course no one IRL would believe me b/c she saves her true self for her children. Everyone thinks she's a saint.<BR/><BR/>It wasn't until i started posting her verbose garbage on the internet and reading people's replies did i realize SHE IS THE ONE WITH THE PROBLEM!!! People think I'm making this stuff up or writing a fiction novel.<BR/><BR/>http://forums.momswhothink.com/showthread.php?t=94309<BR/><BR/>Sincerely,<BR/><BR/>CateAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-62304865864558127912007-05-15T02:21:00.000-06:002007-05-15T02:21:00.000-06:00"First off, the whole point of this damn blog is t..."First off, the whole point of this damn blog is to highlight malignant narcissism. Especially as it has affected adult children of narcissists when they were young and after they are grow"<BR/><BR/>Hello,<BR/><BR/>I just found your blog 2 days ago. You are doing a wonderful job of highlighting malignant narcissism. I've read thru your archives. I am an assistant manager of a forum dedicated to helping people in thier recovery from a destructive narcissist. I wanted to share your blog site because it lends incredible insights into NPD. I am "getting" it and it has validated and captured my own experiences with an Npd'r, although it wasn't my mother. So many of our members do have an N parent and most definately would relate to your blogging. All to say, please don't stop. Anyone who has been abused by such an individual would understand your motivations. <BR/>Sincerely,<BR/>talia<BR/><BR/>The forums I belong to are<BR/>http://groups.msn.com/TheWebofNarcissism (private forum)most activity is here<BR/><BR/>http://groups.msn.com/WebofNarcissism/messages.msnw (public forum)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com