tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post8852226352724428769..comments2024-03-16T14:19:24.563-06:00Comments on Narcissists Suck: Narcissists and Their Fear of AbandonmentAnna Valerioushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02537877317873251678noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-33706439442218996362014-11-27T11:02:03.660-07:002014-11-27T11:02:03.660-07:00I've thought about it and I think my mom has a...I've thought about it and I think my mom has a tremendous fear of abandonment. When I was a teenager, she would not allow closed doors, and she'd literally, literally come and make the rounds every five to ten minutes, ask us what we were doing, and just "wanted to know where we were and what we were doing." but it was never nice, she always made us jump, and always sounded... neurotic. A few times as an adult, when I had closed doors, she would stand and pound on my door, demanding to see me, because she wanted to know where I was, and I would speak to her, "I'm in here," but she would pound and growl, "Open this door, open this door, I want to see you!" and then I'd open the door, and she'd look at me with wild eyes, say "Ok," then walk away. That's literally it. <br /><br />This among other things, my mother is incredibly abusive, with her words, and physically. She let it slip at the end of a conversation that her mother separated from her father when she was 15, and moved out. I think this might have something to do with her insane behavior.Victoria Samrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00467017092837602190noreply@blogger.com