tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post5378270969518039289..comments2024-03-16T14:19:24.563-06:00Comments on Narcissists Suck: I Get in Sister's FaceAnna Valerioushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02537877317873251678noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-1571721508359876142008-03-10T07:14:00.000-06:002008-03-10T07:14:00.000-06:00Thank you. Only someone subjected to the predatio...Thank you. Only someone subjected to the predations of a narcissist sibling (and other family narcissists) really understand the damage these people do. To continue offering up a vein for these people to keep feeding just because they can claim being family is a perversion of what family is supposed to be. IMO. Thanks for your comment(s).Anna Valerioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02537877317873251678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-18968410562996335852008-03-10T00:27:00.000-06:002008-03-10T00:27:00.000-06:00Anna, I, too, am through with my sister, after 49 ...Anna, I, too, am through with my sister, after 49 years!! Think of all the damage a person can do in that time! She did it, not just to me, but to the entire family, including her own son.<BR/><BR/>Sorry, anonymous (above), but DNA does not make me or anyone subject to abuse. I choose who to associate with, and if they choose to abuse me, it's over, I don't care if they're the Pope's sister. N's are vampires. I don't give blood.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-53795089159347944832007-12-10T09:32:00.000-07:002007-12-10T09:32:00.000-07:00Kathy describes the stupidity of forgiving a crime...Kathy describes the stupidity of forgiving a crime in progress <A HREF="http://narc-attack.blogspot.com/2007/12/war-and-peace-with-narcissist.html" REL="nofollow">here</A>.<BR/><BR/>"Fact: life with the narcissist continues as ever: whenever she feels like taking a crap on somebody, you're it. "Forgiving" that is just a codeword for permitting it."<BR/><BR/>I was done with permitting my sister to mistreat me with impunity.Anna Valerioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02537877317873251678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-88449694829999359052007-12-10T09:27:00.000-07:002007-12-10T09:27:00.000-07:00My sister is more than a "snotty bitch". I love i...My sister is more than a "snotty bitch". I love it when someone outside my life thinks they can determine whether or not I've been fair in my dealing with my family. I think that my sister and mother having access to abuse me for over 40 years was quite long enough. They have been the recipients of a lifetime of my giving them passes and excuses for their bad behavior. I have been <I>too</I> patient. The clock ran out. <BR/><BR/>Using sarcasm is not a no-no with narcissists if one is determined to let the truth speak and let the chips fall where they may. If you are still wanting to make nice with a narcissist then, yeah, I suppose sarcasm is a no-no. The time for me worrying about my sister's little feelings was over. Finally. I stand by my decisions concerning her. They were well-thought-out and long in coming. I think over forty years of taking sister's shit is an extreme case.Anna Valerioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02537877317873251678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-55942210343191738752007-12-10T04:40:00.000-07:002007-12-10T04:40:00.000-07:00You are obviously very intelligent and write well....You are obviously very intelligent and write well. And you are logically correct in what you've written. It boils down to how important your relatives are to you. Yes, your sister is a snotty bitch, but she is your sister. I have mixed feelings about completely cutting-off a family member. It would have to be an extreme case.<BR/><BR/>From my own experience, it's best to use the shortest most simple language possible when communicating with the narcissist. Sarcasm is a no no.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com