tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post116178888616688592..comments2024-03-16T14:19:24.563-06:00Comments on Narcissists Suck: Two More Ways to Avoid Thanking Someone SincerelyAnna Valerioushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02537877317873251678noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-26244734156696433612008-05-15T11:56:00.000-06:002008-05-15T11:56:00.000-06:00Also there is the fact that the victims are traine...Also there is the fact that the victims are trained too.<BR/><BR/>Quite frankly I have a hard time not over thanking or apoligizing because I am not sure what I am suppose to do and when. It seems when I am outside of my mothers presence I am just as scared to offend anyone else and receive the same narcissistic rage or abandonment from them. <BR/><BR/>So you might be dealing with a victim. I am trying to kick the habit it is hard. I learned it was silly when someone was nice enough to point out that I said sorry too much. My response "Sorry, Oh uh Sorry" A very hard habit to kick lol. <BR/><BR/>The number one thing I want to learn is what is normal. I have no idea and my mom had me homeschool all my life except for two years. <BR/><BR/>Saying sorry too much can be a sign of lack of confidence also. My mother not only instilled a terror of me making her angry again but a terror of insulting and making others angry at me. I am afraid to say anything because it might be offensive and they might start fighting with me about it like my mother does. <BR/><BR/>TCON (Teenage Child of Narcissist)<BR/><BR/>Garfield<BR/><BR/>(I wish there were more sites for teenagers that are living with narcissists.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-45941626485024510682008-01-12T21:46:00.000-07:002008-01-12T21:46:00.000-07:00Yep, I experienced this with my narcissistic cowor...Yep, I experienced this with my narcissistic coworker. He definately had the over-thank and over-apologize thing down pat. And yeah, I definately did feel uncomfortable by both dynamics. He also loved dishing out patronizing compliments but would always say that he didn't deserve any compliments because he was just doing his work, what he was supposed to do. And he was a self-sufficient bastard who didn't desire anyone else's help. Crazy. I'm sure I'm the only one that picked up on all of this nonsense from him, but it was just truly weird.JWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14661398162341634138noreply@blogger.com