tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post116006557077176667..comments2024-03-16T14:19:24.563-06:00Comments on Narcissists Suck: Narcissists and the Denial of Remorse and GratitudeAnna Valerioushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02537877317873251678noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-82277809947773177522016-10-13T23:36:56.682-06:002016-10-13T23:36:56.682-06:00I am chuckling and tickled pink as I read and read...I am chuckling and tickled pink as I read and read and read this website! I AM NOT ALONE! I have been through so much for so long IT IS A MIRACLE THAT I AM CHUCKLING! Thank you thank you thank you all so much for contributing your time to help me get clear. Don't stop looking for your own miracle before you get it!gettingouttathedarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07881962420902281989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-27589187424525332352015-11-05T13:44:59.596-07:002015-11-05T13:44:59.596-07:00An abuse victim will flinch when the abuser waves ...An abuse victim will flinch when the abuser waves their hands around, and the abuser will scream "What? You act as if I was going to HIT you! Don't do that!" What a bunch of a$$holes.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13878485201520388212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-24342510311756268392013-09-24T22:13:03.578-06:002013-09-24T22:13:03.578-06:00Here's a couple other "undoing" exam...Here's a couple other "undoing" examples any ACON could relate to:<br />You have been verbally thrashed/raged at reducing you to a terrified trembling being or perhaps a sobbing, snotting puddle. Often, you're not sure what your "offense" actually was...<br />Some time thereafter, the NP starts speaking to you normally, totally ignoring your normal, human response. <br />Or-<br />You've been on the receiving end of The Silent Treatment for who knows what-if you dare ask what's wrong, you get no response or a snarled, "NOTHING."<br />Suddenly, they start speaking to you normally, as if nothing happened.<br /><br />In both instances, you're required to feel grateful that you are now back in their good graces. In both instances, they have just pulled what I call the "Clear Entry Move." Kind of like the ServPro Ad, "Like it Never Even Happened."<br />Except, it DID. (Again. Rinse and repeat.) No explanations, no apologies-ever. Because it "Never Even Happened."<br />Welcome to the world of growing up with an NP and their "doing" and "Undoing" of their kids.<br />TW Tundra Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12262066568878267648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32237145.post-8658410814705066762008-05-15T12:27:00.000-06:002008-05-15T12:27:00.000-06:00Aaaah this one. Another thing making more sense. I...Aaaah this one. Another thing making more sense. It always felt weird when I brought up some injustice my mother did to my like allowing my little brother to do this and not allowing me to do the same thing or some other little thing that she would call petty. It is on its own but I wanted her to feel a little bit sorry for her unfair treatment. <BR/><BR/>(She does it vice versa to, something for me but not my brother)<BR/><BR/>She has the child's idea of get even. Just give me the same thing now and I will be alright. Then I pointlessly try to explain to her that I just want her to try to avoid doing such things and all that I want is a sincere sorry. (I rarely say the wanting a sincere sorry part because that could result in an explosion)<BR/><BR/>GarfieldAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com